Eros  Intimacy  Coaching

Amy Acosta- Ryan

Personalized Sex, Intimacy + Relationship Coaching to meet you where you are

Hi! My name is Amy, I am the founder of Eros Intimacy Coaching and a Certified Intimacy Coach based in Austin TX.

I create a safe space and a guiding presence for my clients where they are able to share and work through challenges around sex, intimacy and relationship blocks.

My mission is to empower my clients to understand, love and feel more connected to their own bodies, sensuality and desire, and to experience deeply fulfilling and passionate connection with their partner.

Book a session

Schedule a 1-on-1 connection call with me where we can explore what challenges you are facing and what you need right now in your intimate life and relationships.

* Please note that all sessions will be virtual- via video meeting.

My story

I grew up hearing the message that sex, desire and the pursuit of pleasure was something to feel ashamed of — something hidden rather than honored. Over time, I began a personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and deep exploration of what intimacy truly means.

Through both lived experience and professional training as a Certified Intimacy Coach, I’ve come to understand that healthy intimacy is rooted in safety, communication, self-love, and empowered boundaries.

Today, I help individuals and couples reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and their authentic expression — so they can cultivate passionate, secure, and deeply fulfilling relationships.

I believe intimacy is not just about physical connection. It’s about emotional presence. It’s about feeling safe enough to be seen. It’s about loving yourself fully so you can love your partner deeply.

My mission is to guide you toward an intimate life that feels vibrant, confident, awakened, and aligned — where pleasure is free of shame and connection is built on trust.

You deserve a love that feels both safe and electric.

Unlock the pleasure, passion and connection that transforms your relationships.

  • Safety

    Emotional, physical, and spiritual safety are the foundation of my work. I prioritize nervous system regulation, consent, clear boundaries, and creating a space where you can relax, exhale, and be yourself.

    Non-Judgment & Compassion

    You will be met with kindness, curiosity, and respect—not shame or criticism. I believe your experiences and desires matter.

    Deep Listening & Being Seen

    Feeling heard, understood, and valued is essential to healing and connection. I listen with care and intention, honoring you, your relationship, and your unique journey.

    Trust, Respect & Consent

    Healthy intimacy begins with mutual respect, trust, and honoring boundaries—always. I hold strong ethical standards that protect dignity, autonomy, and human rights.

    Hope, Clarity & Forward Movement

    I believe there is always hope. Together, we create a clear path forward—one that supports the intimacy, connection, and fulfillment you desire.

    Team Mindset in Relationships

    I value relationships rooted in “us vs. the problem,” never “us vs. each other.” Choosing each other daily, communicating openly, and moving through challenges together matters deeply.

    Playfulness, Curiosity & Joy

    Intimacy gets to be fun, light, and exploratory. I value laughter, shared humor, curiosity, and openness to learning what truly feels good—for you and your partner.

    Authenticity & Vulnerability

    True intimacy grows when it’s safe to be real. I honor honest expression, emotional vulnerability, and creating space where both partners can show up fully.

    Growth, Learning & Embodied Wisdom

    I value understanding the body, learning practical tools for intimacy, and staying open to growth—emotionally, relationally, and sensually—at a pace that feels right.

    Love, Devotion & Spiritual Alignment

    Love, compassion, kindness, and walking a shared spiritual path matter. I honor relationships grounded in faith, prayer, humility, and choosing love over ego. description

  • I offer private, confidential 1:1 virtual sessions for individuals and couples. Each coaching journey is thoughtfully tailored to meet you exactly where you are, honoring your unique experiences, relationship dynamics, and desires.

    We begin with a complimentary connection call — a gentle, no-pressure conversation where I get to know you and better understand what you’re longing for in your intimate life and relationship right now. This is a space for you to share openly and explore what kind of support would feel most aligned.

    From there, I design a personalized 6- or 12-session coaching plan to guide you toward building healthier, more fulfilling patterns of intimacy and connection. Together, we may explore:

    • Strengthening communication and emotional safety

    • Nervous system regulation and creating a sense of calm in your body

    • Examining current beliefs and conditioning around sex, your body, and intimacy

    • Rebuilding desire, confidence, and connection

    Each session includes practical tools, reflective exercises, and actionable steps to help you integrate what we discuss into your daily life. This work is designed not just for insight, but for meaningful, sustainable change.

    You’ll also receive weekly check-ins for continued support and accountability, along with access to text or WhatsApp messaging between sessions. I respond during my business hours to ensure you feel supported throughout our time together.

    This is a structured yet nurturing space — one where growth feels steady, supported, and deeply personal.

  • I work with couples who are truly committed to strengthening their connection and deepening their intimacy. Whether you’re navigating disconnection, recurring conflict, or simply longing to feel closer again, our work focuses on helping you communicate more openly, rebuild trust, and create a relationship that feels secure, passionate, and aligned. This is a collaborative process — one where both partners are willing to show up, reflect, and grow together in meaningful ways.

    I also work privately 1:1 with women who desire a supportive, judgment-free space to explore their intimate lives more deeply. Together, we gently unpack challenges around pleasure, shame, guilt, body image, relationship patterns, and emotional connection. My intention is to help you feel more at home in yourself — more confident in your desires, clearer in your boundaries, and more connected to your body and your truth.

    Whether you are coming as a couple or as an individual, this work is grounded in safety, compassion, and steady transformation.

I CAN help you WITH…

  • Libido Issues

  • Mismatched desire in a relationship

  • Difficulty or Inability to orgasm

  • Experiencing more frequent and pleasurable orgasms

  • Body image issues that affect intimacy

  • Releasing shame and guilt associated with intimacy

  • Establishing + communicating boundaries

  • Learning how to make time for intimacy

  • Reconnecting with your partner after having a baby

  • Bringing passion back into your relationship

  • Learning self-pleasure and partnered pleasure techniques

  • Learning how to utilize the 5 Love Languages for greater connection, understanding and intimacy in your relationship

  • Connecting deeply with your partner- emotionally, physically, spiritually

  • Connecting deeply with yourself- emotionally, physically, spiritually

  • Life changes that have impacted your sex life in your relationship

  • Burnout and stress that impacts your love life

  • Nervous system regulation methods that expand the possibilities of pleasure + connection

  • Difficulty connecting to your own body/ your own sensation

  • Expanding the realms of pleasure and experiencing more satisfying, electric and exciting sex

  • Releasing old patterns of sex that no longer serve you, to make way for growth, healing and boundless pleasure

  • Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns

  • Learning to love yourself more deeply

  • Understanding and healing from unhealthy attachment styles: getting to a “secure attachment”

  • Understanding feminine + masculine energy polarity in a relationship

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