Eros Intimacy Coaching
Amy Acosta- Ryan
Personalized Sex, Intimacy + Relationship Coaching to meet you where you are
Hi! My name is Amy, I am the founder of Eros Intimacy Coaching and a Certified Intimacy Coach based in Austin TX.
I create a safe space and a guiding presence for women and couples, where you are able to share and work through challenges around sex, intimacy and relationship blocks.
My mission is to empower my clients to understand, love and feel more connected to their own bodies, pleasure and desire, and to experience deeply fulfilling and passionate connection with their partner.
Client Reviews
“I am so grateful to Amy for creating a safe and supportive space to discuss the intimacy challenges in my relationship. Prior to working with Amy, I felt completely alone in talking about them and hopeless in finding solutions. After several months of working together, I feel more empowered, more connected to myself, and more capable of communicating constructively with my husband. Thank you Amy for the important work you’re doing!”
~ Sydney
(name changed to protect client privacy)
“What struck me first about Amy was how comfortable I felt talking to her about the most intimate details of my personal life. 😲 Of course I knew she was an Intimacy Coach, but it was still amazing how easily I could talk to her.
Through the sessions I've had with Amy, I've found her to completely non-judgmental, perceptive of my real needs, and best of all, incredibly good at coming up with simple yet effective ideas and techniques for helping me get so much more fun out of my sex life! 😍🥳 Thank you, Amy - I'm glad I found you.”
~ C. Lee
“ Amy creates a kind and warm space for those who wish to explore and strengthen their intimacy life. She also provides tangible strategies to support you in your journey and meets you where you are at providing safety and a pace that feels right for each individual person.”
~ Andrea
(name changed to protect client privacy)
Book a session
Schedule a 1-on-1 connection call with me where we can explore what challenges you are facing and what you need right now in your intimate life and relationships.
* Please note that all sessions will be virtual- via video meeting.
My story
I grew up hearing the message that sex, desire and the pursuit of pleasure was something to feel ashamed of- something hidden rather than honored. Over time, I began a personal journey of healing, self-discovery, and deep exploration of what intimacy truly means.
Through both lived experience and professional training as a Certified Intimacy Coach, I’ve come to understand that healthy intimacy is rooted in safety, communication, self-love, and empowered boundaries.
Today, I help women and couples reconnect to their bodies, their desire, and their authentic expression, so they can cultivate passionate, secure, and deeply fulfilling relationships.
I believe intimacy is about more than physical connection. It’s about emotional presence, feeling safe enough to be fully seen, and loving yourself fully so you can love your partner deeply.
My mission is to guide you toward an intimate life that feels vibrant, confident, awakened, and aligned, where pleasure is free of shame and connection is built on trust.
You deserve a love that feels both safe and electric.
Unlock the pleasure, passion and connection that transforms your relationships.
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Safety
Emotional, physical, and spiritual safety are the foundation of my work. I prioritize nervous system regulation, consent, clear boundaries, and creating a space where you can relax, exhale, and be yourself.
Non-Judgment & Compassion
I will meet you with kindness, curiosity, and respect. I believe your experiences and desires matter.
Deep Listening & Being Seen
I believe that feeling heard, understood, and valued is essential to healing and connection. I listen with care and intention, honoring you, your relationship, and your unique journey.
Trust, Respect & Consent
Healthy intimacy begins with mutual respect, trust, and honoring boundaries, always. I hold strong ethical standards that protect dignity, autonomy, and human rights.
Hope, Clarity & Forward Movement
I believe there is always hope. Together, we create a clear path forward that supports the intimacy, connection, and fulfillment you desire.
Team Mindset in Relationships
I value relationships rooted in “us vs. the problem,” never “us vs. each other.” Choosing each other daily, communicating openly, and moving through challenges together matters immensely.
Playfulness, Curiosity & Joy
Intimacy can be fun, light, and exploratory. I value laughter, shared humor, curiosity, and openness to learning what truly feels good for you and your partner.
Authenticity & Vulnerability
I believe that real intimacy grows when it’s safe to be real. I honor honest expression, emotional vulnerability, and creating space where both partners can show up fully.
Growth, Learning & Embodied Wisdom
I value understanding the body, learning practical tools for intimacy, and staying open to growth: emotionally, relationally, and sensually, at a pace that feels right.
Love, Devotion & Spiritual Alignment
Love, compassion, kindness, and walking a shared spiritual path matter. I honor relationships grounded in faith, prayer, humility, and choosing love over ego.
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I offer private, confidential 1:1 virtual sessions for women and couples. Each coaching journey is thoughtfully tailored to meet you exactly where you are, honoring your unique experiences, relationship dynamics, and desires.
We begin with a complimentary connection call: a gentle, no-pressure conversation where I get to know you and better understand what you’re longing for in your intimate life and relationship right now. This is a space for you to share openly and explore what kind of support would feel most aligned.
From there, I design a personalized 6- or 12-session coaching plan to guide you toward building healthier, more fulfilling patterns of intimacy and connection. Together, we may explore:
Strengthening communication and emotional safety
Nervous system regulation and creating a sense of calm in your body
Examining current beliefs and conditioning around sex, your body, and intimacy
Rebuilding desire, confidence, and connection
Each session includes practical tools, reflective exercises, and actionable steps to help you integrate what we discuss into your daily life. This work is designed not just for insight, but for meaningful, sustainable change.
You’ll also receive weekly check-ins for continued support and accountability, along with access to text or WhatsApp messaging between sessions. I respond during my business hours to ensure you feel supported throughout our time together.
This is a structured yet nurturing space where growth feels steady, supported, and deeply personal.
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I work with couples who are truly committed to strengthening their connection and deepening their intimacy. Whether you are navigating disconnection, recurring conflict, or simply wanting to feel closer again, our work focuses on helping you communicate more openly, rebuild trust, and create a relationship that feels secure, passionate, and aligned. This is a collaborative process: one where both partners are willing to show up, reflect, and grow together authentically.
I also work privately 1:1 with women who desire a supportive, judgment-free space to explore their intimate lives more deeply. Together, we gently unpack challenges around pleasure, shame, guilt, body image, relationship patterns, and emotional connection. My intention is to help you feel fully confident in your desires, clearer in your boundaries, and more connected to your body and to yourself.
Whether you are coming as a couple or as an individual, this work is grounded in safety, compassion, and sustainable transformation.
What do I help with?…
Libido Issues
Mismatched desire in a relationship
Difficulty or Inability to orgasm
Experiencing more frequent and pleasurable orgasms
Body image challenges related to intimacy
Releasing shame and guilt associated with intimacy
Establishing + communicating boundaries
Reconnecting with your partner after having a baby
Bringing passion back into your relationship
Learning self-pleasure and partnered pleasure techniques
Connecting deeply with your partner- emotionally, physically, spiritually
Connecting deeply with yourself- emotionally, physically, spiritually
Life changes that have impacted your sex life in your relationship
Nervous system regulation methods that expand the possibilities of pleasure + connection
Expanding the realms of pleasure that are possible within your body
Releasing old patterns of sex that no longer serve you, to make way for growth, healing and boundless pleasure
Breaking unhealthy relationship patterns
Understanding and healing from unhealthy attachment styles: getting to a “secure attachment”
Understanding feminine + masculine energy polarity in a relationship
